You are totally in love with her. However, she only sees you as a friend or a brother.
It is easier to prevent yourself from getting into the friend’s zone than getting out of it when you get in. Once you are labeled as a friend, it is really hard to make her notice that you want to be more than just a friend. Fortunately, it is possible to get out of the friend zone with a simple strategy.
Here is the best way to get out of the friend zone with a girl and turn her into your girlfriend:
To avoid the friend zone, make your intentions known early on in the relationship…
1. Stop acting like the nice guy
If you want to get out of the friend’s zone, you have to stop being the nice guy. Yes, you adore her and you want to do good things for her always. However, being extremely nice is one of the things that got you into the friend’s zone in the first place.
Show her that you are interested in her romantically but don’t try to pressure her into a relationship with you. Communicate your needs to her without fear of being rejected.
2. Get rid of the touch barrier
The way you touch her when you get the chance has a big impact on how she is going to see you. There are romantic ways to touch someone and there are platonic ways as well. If you are terrified about touching her the wrong way, it is highly likely that you are going to touch her the wrong way when you do it. Get rid of the fear and take a few ‘touching risks’.
There many places in her body that you can touch to send the right signal without being inappropriate. Reach for her hands, shoulders, hair or back. If she does not like it, she will definitely tell you. If she does not say anything, she probably likes it. Touching her is a way of saying that that you find her attractive and that you are really confident.
3. Do not make her think that you are very needy
One of the reasons why you are in the friend’s zone is because you seem to be more interested in her more than she is interested in you. Don’t send signals that ndicate that you are really desperate to be in relationship with her. Desperation is a huge attraction killer.
Show her that you like her but refrain from making her think that you really want to get into a relationship with her. This will make her curious about you, something that will driver her towards you.