When And How To Approach Women

Are you interested in first hand information on when and how to approach women? If your answer is yes, look no further. I have had a lot of guys come to me over the years and ask for help on how they should approach women. I have also been approached by plenty of guys who I thought were cute but completely lost it on their approach.

I will break it down for you plain and simple. Many guys have problems approaching women because they think too much about it which in turn ruins their chances of being successful. The most important thing to note is that there will never be a perfect time to approach women because you can’t get the same results with all approaches.

womandrinkingatbarWhen and how to approach women is all about having the right mindset and using the right moves to increase your chances of success. So, if you see a woman you’re interested in, approach her. Don’t waste any time however, make sure you have the right mindset and you use the right moves. Delaying while checking her out head to toe is downright creepy. Women know you want to make an approach the second that thought crosses your mind.

Women will therefore think you don’t have any guts or you’re weird when you take too much time. You don’t want to fall into either category since women despise guys with no guts so, make your move fast.

In regards to mindset, you need to approach a woman with the sole purpose of finding out if you would be interested in her as opposed to approaching her to impress her or prove to her that you are an awesome guy who deserves to get her contacts. In a nutshell, you shouldn’t worry about her. Your focus should be 100% finding out if she is what you want or not. As simple as that!

Most guys hesitate because they put a lot of pressure on themselves to impress. Before you start thinking too much, focus on the sole purpose of dating which is finding somebody who is fun to talk to and hang around with. Before you find this out, you shouldn’t focus on impressing since she may not be the one for
you.

If you find yourself avoiding approaches too often, it may also be because you probably make excuses for women you want to approach i.e. by saying she is too busy, she doesn’t look approachable, she probably has a boyfriend etc. Such excuses won’t take you anywhere. Abolish them from your mindset until you make your first approach and talk to her. Also, be respectable, confident and friendly (not to personal) when you start the conversation. A little humour is also good.

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